Friday, January 29, 2010

How to defeat your sexual desires..???

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Islam is not just a Relegion. It is a Way of Life. Islam has solution for Everything. Allahu Akbar. I read this Article today and I would like to share with everyone.

How to defeat your sexual desires..???
If you follows the commands or your hawa (evil desires and lust of private parts)then:
1.You will be humiliated.
2. Hawa makes an alignment with shaitan(satan) to finish you off i.e. its also an avoked enemy like shaitan.
3. If hawa controls the heart , it controls the whole body.
4. The one who follows his hawa is like a mad person who does not know the consequences of what he does.
5. Your heart hardens, compress and you feel like dying i.e. you want to cry but you can't.

On the other hand , if you follows you Creater your heart will light up and your face will shine like a moon.

Remidies: how to defeat Hawa:
1. Strong will : Desires are transitory, they will not stay.
2. Sabr(patience): is a bitter fruit, learn to eat it because is the most important of all things.
3. Be brave: disobey yourself.
4. Think about the ultimate pleasure of heaven: forbade here means fulfillment there.
5. Think of the hell fire.
6. Good pleasure of God: is the most important thing. Our Creater is happy with us. real happines is in obeyiong and fullfilling His commands.
7. Sweetness: of worshiping your Lord is better than bitternes of sin.
8. Feel victorious when you defeat your lusts, when you disobey yourself.
9. We are not created to have fun (in this world).
10. Hawa is boundary(the fence) of hell-fire.
11. Following hawa is a disease and only our God can help us.
12. Shaitan invites you to any sin, hawa invites to one partyicular sin.
13. The fruits of following hawa: anxiety, fear & depression.
14. Dont slave ur self to hawa instead of your Lord.!


Suhail son of Sai’d (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s’ Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever gives me the
assurance (not to unlawfully use) what is between their jaws and their legs
(i.e. the tongue and the private parts), I give them the assurance of the
Heaven. (Bukhari)

May Allah guide us to the straight path and strenghten our faith!..(ameen)

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